WHO

DAD, AUTHOR, PODCASTER, FRIEND, NEPHEW, MENTOR…

Like you, I have several different titles. The version of me that pops into your mind depends on the context of how you know me.

I'm the author of the book Accessory to Marriage- Chronicles of Outrageousness from My Life as a Wedding Photographer. (yes, that's a seriously long title) It's a memoir of sorts. A collection of stories about things I've witnessed over the many years of being close to people who were celebrating their relationships. Sometimes things go awry during celebrations, and since everyone loves a juicy story, it seemed like a good idea at the time.

Are you still reading this? Really? I'm impressed. Moving on...

I call this next section my corporate dating profile. It's a lot of the info you're dying to know about me in order to establish an engaging working relationship while omitting any awkward, romantic intentions. The format and questions were taken from an actual dating website- you know, for authenticity.

My Self Summary

I'm a creative, professional, and surround myself with people who innovate and also make me laugh. That last part is super important.
I'm Southern, but not fried (in the least) My manners are Southern, my accent is not. (Unless you're from Boston, in which case everyone you meet here will seem to have a Southern accent)
An INFP, (Meyers Briggs) I focus on creating the future as it could be, rather than accepting what others may perceive as current reality. I hire others to mind the details because looking at spreadsheets gives me a rash.
I love the arts. Mostly visual arts, but can appreciate performing arts when the mood strikes or the wine is good.
I get along with almost anyone as long as they don't show up late for things.
If you talk about sports, my defense mechanism is to stare blankly as if in a protective coma, nod, and quickly change the subject. If that doesn't work, I might accidentally start a small fire so we can evacuate the building.
I love music, but not really concerts. Loud, crowded places? Please, no.
I stop by the gym nearly every day, but only because there's a traffic light right outside of it and it's on my way home. When the light turns green I keep driving. If I want to lift weights, I think about all of the world's hungry children, 'cause that's actually heavy.

What I'm Doing With My Life

Helping others tell their stories through photos, videos, and podcasts. Informing and inspiring others, raising a few members of the next generation, eating, sleeping, repeat daily.

I'm Really Good At

Connecting two or more completely random tangents
Making nothing out of something and though I've never tried it, I bet I would be good at hostage negotiation
Oh, I can cook! For real cooking, just like Grandma taught me
When necessary, creating a calming effect on those around me.

Favorite Books, Movies, Shows, Music, and Food

Books- I read a lot and still like the good old fashioned paper books. My reading is prioritized to include mostly non-fiction. Recently read were The Book of Joy, The Body Keeps the Score, Outlaw Platoon, the Like Switch, and Happiness Project. Favorite book of all time would have to be Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil. Love Savannah! I do read a little bit of fiction, like Dean Koontz and just read Beautiful Ruins recently which felt like more of a journey than a story.

Movies and TV- I do watch movies, but I don’t even have a TV, because as Sweet Brown so eloquently noted- “Ain't nobody got time for that!”. If I want to sit and watch other people live life, I'll go to the park. If I want to watch a zombie show, then I'll go to the mall.

Music- All you need to know is that R.E.M. is the greatest Southern rock band of all time. If you don't agree, that's ok I guess, but I have no idea what else we'll talk about. I also like other classics like the Beastie Boys, Chilli Peppers, Smashing Pumpkins, and Connells. Obviously, someone went to college in the early 90s...

I was born, well, a minute or two ago, and raised in a time when Frankie said "RELAX!" and Depeche Mode, MJ, and Duran Duran were huge influences. I will also take a stand in saying that I prefer Van Halen's Sammy years over Diamond Dave. I know that is controversial, but haters can hate all they want.

Food- Yeah love it. You can take me anywhere, Not a picky eater.
Bar-b-que should be enjoyed with any sauce on hand at the time. Eastern style? Western Style? Forget that! There is no need to quibble over which style of sauce best compliments. The real question is, "slaw or hushpuppies?" The correct answer is, "yes, please!".

We should go ahead and get this item out of the way because it might be a deal-breaker. I don't like the taste of beer. Strange I know. I even try it again every once in a while thinking my taste buds will change and, well, I got nothin'. More for you though.

I Spend A Lot of Time Thinking About

How much things change over time. I recall being a kid and almost every commercial on TV was about soap. There was Coast, Palmolive (remember Madge soaking her fingers?) there was SafeGuard and Zest, Irish Spring and Dial, Dove, and Ivory. I can still remember all of the Jingles. There must have been some serious personal hygiene issues to overcome in the mid-80s.

Now on rare occasions, when I see network news, all of the commercials are for drugs that will solve your health issues if you manage to live through the side effects. Have you ever noticed that dry mouth, tongue swelling, and redness are always on the list? I digress...

On a Typical Friday Night, I Am

Sometimes plotting world domination, sometimes dominating karaoke night. Other times, a restaurant maybe, or a road trip. I like to get out. No sitting on the couch for this guy.

You Should Message Me If

You want to tell the story of your brand through visual content or a podcast. I can help you create either or both.
You need to train your team, and level up your professional skills and serve your clients and partners in the best possible way.
You're in the mood for some bar-b-que.